The months of July to October were a complete blur to me because those were the months that I was most heavily involved in planning and activities related to weddings that I was in, 10 days apart from each other. Yes, you read that right. I was a Maid of Honor in one wedding and a bridesmaid in another wedding the weekend after. No, I totally handled it with grace and totally didn’t get wedding details confused, at all.
Anyway, bride #1 had a shower that was being planned by family. No biggie, that really helped as I was getting ready for the other bride’s shower and bachelorette party. Bride #1 had mentioned some possible dates and I made sure I was open but that was all that was mentioned. We then went on to have about 5,895 conversations about the wedding, but never one about the shower.
Fast forward about a month, to one lazy Saturday morning…
I am the opposite of a homebody on the weekends. I want to be anywhere but home. However, on that one Saturday I had decided to have a delightful day of no bra, no showering, lazy, Netflixing 20 episodes of The Office and just lying in bed. I mean, I was living the life.
It’s at this point and time I should tell you that my parents had tried to get me to go to Oklahoma for a family reunion and I was *that* close to going but I decided I wanted a lazy day all to myself. It is very important that you remember that I was *that* close to going to Oklahoma that day.
It was about 12:45 pm and I decided to text Bride #1 and ask if she wanted to do brunch. She replied and said it depended on how she felt after today. I made a stank face and replied, “What is today?”
“Uh…my bridal shower.”
“Uh…no it’s not. What are you talking about?”
“Are you seriously?”
“I never got an invite!”
“Alissa, are you serious?”
It’s at this point that I jump up, immediately call her and am freaking out. I am running around, jittery, crying and hot and cold. She completely thought I was joking. The shower was that day. Oh yeah, and in an hour. I was looking like someone who had been living under a rock for 10 days. She yelled back that I got an invite on the day I was over at her house. But the day that I was over at her house was the day that her hair trial ended in a disaster and we spent 90 minutes trying to find a new hairstyle after the appointment with the stylist ended horribly. I yelled back, sobbing that I didn’t understand what was happening.
I had no idea what the invite looked like. She texted me a photo and I was shocked. I had never a) seen the invite b) thought to ask when her family scheduled the shower and c) I had no gift or really any chance of looking decent.
So after having a few tears come out from the panic, I jumped into the shower, picked out a horribly unflattering outfit, jumped in the car, got a card from the grocery store that I had to customize to a “I’m sorry I’m your best friend and I forgot your shower but I swear I never saw an invite can we still be friends?” card (Hallmark really needs to make a whole section for that) and made it to the shower 10 minutes early. That’s right! I made it 10 minutes early even when I was 20 minutes from the venue and had to shave my legs.
We haven’t really discussed this whole incident. I think she still thinks I had an invite that I just lost. I’d like to go on internet record that this is not true but also do not want to bring up any ill feelings. However, she’s probably going to read this. I’d also like to say that I made a countdown, calendar and email reminder of when their wedding day was. Just in case. Oh and to be clear, I DID get an invite to that. For sure.
Also, I was totally right that it’s almost funny months later. Almost. Still a little too painful, but I’m beginning to see the humor in it. Ish. Maybe in 2016.
Alice Warren
So glad to see you back!! I miss your story telling and even though it was funny to read this post, I can imagine how awful you've must've felt to forget about your friend's shower. Glad it all worked out.
Alice
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Bogi RedReticule
As funny as it sounds after the fact, I'm pretty sure this wasn't funny being part of and playing the main role.
This color looks so flattering on you!
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Courtney Lang
That's such a crazy story!! I'm glad that everything worked out though! And your heels are so cute!
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Laura Bambrick
Well that is certainly not as bad as forgetting the rings at a ceremony where you are maid of honor which I did this past summer. I don't think I will ever get over the guilt…Maybe in 2016! 😉
Karen R
Oh my gosh!!! That would be a nightmare! Awesome you were able to get ready so fast!
-Karen
LadyinViolet.com
Rebecca
Whoa thanks for living to tell the tale 🙂 You also look smashing in red – Wishing you the best of the holidays!
Rebecca
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Elegance and Mommyhood
You are too funny. Lazy Saturday morning and that's what you look like? I love the dress and pumps and both are perfect for now during the holidays, too.
Jasmin daily
I am so stinkin' happy your back! It's these stories I have been missing, plus that red dress….red is your color!
xo, Jasmin
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BLovedBoston
Oh my gosh!! Well I'm sure she has since forgiven you for the incident and the best part is you made it! xo, Biana –BlovedBoston
Kathrine Eldridge
This dress is gorgeous and such a pretty color on you! 🙂
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Rachel Lynne
Awww I'm sorry this happened to you, that would be so sad! Oh my gosh! At least you made it 🙂
Kate at Green Fashionista
Loving this dress on you, such a gorgeous color! And lol at the shower story, totally sounds like something that would happen to me, and yay for making it 🙂
Green Fashionista
Aubrey Williams
I was a groomsman in a friend's wedding, and after being a bridesmaid and MOH in the past it was soooo refreshing. Did you know that groomsmen just SHOW UP? LOL
Believe me, we could share drinks and bridesmaid stories for hours… don't feel bad. We all get busy, tired, stressed, anxious, and all-around messy sometimes. Forgive yourself. You showed up early, to boot!
Meghan @ Hayes Days
I laughed! But that doesn't mean it's super hilarious yet. You were still there! Honestly that's what really matters. And you didn't miss the wedding, which we all know is the most important part.
PS I love that color red on you and how did I not get this dress when it was in stock? I'm gonna have to watch for it. I love how it fits you. Not so much on the model.
Whitney Damrau
Good friends will forgive you and the most important part is that you MADE IT! Plus it's something that you can laugh at later. My bff had 2 people that were in the wedding not show up to the wedding! That's bad.
Xoxo,
Whitney & Blaire
Peaches In A Pod
Anna Higgins
Im so glad your back! Your so hilarious! At least your made it to the shower AND the wedding the most important part!
Teal and Polka Dots
You look amazing, and props for being able to pull off such a great outfit in rush. I would have looked like a train wreck. Stressful as it was, the important thing to remember is that you DID make it! An you're right, one day it'll be a funny memory. 🙂
Shannon Jenkins
Omggg!!! You always have the funniest stories! Glad it all worked out! That red dress looks stunning on you!
<3 Shannon
Upbeat Soles
ravenlocks
LOL! Oh my gosh…I would have been freaking the f out. Is this the dress you wore? Because you look fantastic. A+ for getting there 10 minutes early!
xo Azu
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Elisa Z
Great outfit. The story was quite funny, even though it was probably not at the time. I would freak out if that happened to me, but when you look back at these kinds of stuff its actually funny.
ZEKALIN
Catarina Neves
You seriously made me laugh! Great post!
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AryaElsa#
Lovely post, made me laugh:) Lovely red dress:)
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Ramona
I'm glad everything worked out. What a funny story.You look cute in that red dress.
xoxo
Ramona
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Alyssa Gap
Oh girl. You look FABULOUS. I know it was probably a crazy day, but you can look back on it and laugh. Hey, sometimes stuff doesn't come to us in the mail and we're so busy trying to manage everything else. Moral of the story. We're all just human! Ah, I've missed your posts!
Alyssa | Glitter and Grey
Emma Walker
Oh my gosh crazy!! But you look amazing
Emma | With A City Dream
Katy McKinley
Oh my god. This is hysterical and I feel like it could be something that would happen to me.
Also. This dress is giving me all sorts of heart eyes. And your hair is fab. That is all. 😉
Alice
You still looked fierce! Great post, I really enjoyed reading it!
xo, Alice | Miss Inconnue | Etsy
Sarah Gerstenkorn
Yes she probably will read this and also vividly remember the details of that day. She also will probably remember having the invitation to hand to you on the day of the disastrous hair trial but it somehow never actually being transferred to your possession. She will then probably find the invitation you were supposed to have been given at her mom's house about a month after the shower. At least if I was the bride in the story, that's how I imagine it would have happened. 😉
Sarah Gerstenkorn
Yes she probably will read this and also vividly remember the details of that day. She also will probably remember having the invitation to hand to you on the day of the disastrous hair trial but it somehow never actually being transferred to your possession. She will then probably find the invitation you were supposed to have been given at her mom's house about a month after the shower. At least if I was the bride in the story, that's how I imagine it would have happened. 😉
Head to Toe Chic
oh my goodness, this sounds like something I would do! At least you made it though! and that dress is gorgeous on you.
xo,
Angela
Dominica Sygula
Hi darling, how are you today? I love this, another great post.
Thank you for sharing this with us.
Check out my new post if you're interested:
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Merry Christmas & Happy New Year!
Abigail Castro
I love this dress! It is simple enough for day and casual wear but looks so fab with your heels!
xo,
Abby of Life in the Fash Lane
Naomi Shapiro
Super cute dress, wish they still had it in a size other than 0…
Sara Strauss {Sincerely, Sara}
Oh man, you crack me up! Every post of yours is gold! How crazy would it have been if you'd gone to Oklahoma?! I'm glad you made it to the shower! This color is so pretty on you!!
~Sara
Sincerely, Sara
Karly @ Miss in the Midwest
Oh my goodness, you poor thing! I can only imagine that type of panic/freak out. Hopefully your friend has moved past it – if you never got an invite, how were you supposed to know?!
Kendall H
Oh my goodness, how stressful! I almost did the exact same thing for our appointment to get the bridesmaid dresses for my friend's wedding. When I was a bride, in order to not stress myself out, I tried to be realistic about everything and reminded myself that they were doing their best. You sound like a kick ass maid of honor anyway! And you have some fabulous heels too 🙂
Sybil
ravishing in red! 😀
Have a great weekend!
Animated Confessions
Garaytreasures
Oh no, but you look great and I am sure the bride to be did too.
Rachel xo
Garay Treasures
Design Eat Repeat
Bahahaha OMG I'm so glad you are back blogging because these Alissa shenanigan stories never fail to disappoint and make me LLOL (literally laugh out loud).
Shira
ha I am totally on your side on this one! I hate social events so I would probably be the one pretending I didn't get an invite to my best friend's shower. HA. Only kidding a little!
ann bill
I love your red dress
Cilja http://www.missydress.se
Public Lives, Secret Recipes
Oh my goodness what a crazy day!! Glad you made it though! xo
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Taramixandmatch
That is so crazy! Glad it all worked out in the end though…and I love you in red 🙂
Lindsay Truax
Not to worry!! It happens to all of us!! It happened to me this week!! Gorgeous red dress!!
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Kacie Ellis
I was seriously on the edge of my seat (er…bed) reading this post! Good job on making it in time! And I'm sure she'll forgive you…just don't miss the wedding! lol.
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Kate
Ah weddings, they really do cause some stress! At least you made it in the end! x
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Nada Qamber
This is one of the disastrous stories you'll retell and laugh about in the future! ahahahah
Irene Thayer
The post is so great! Thank you so much for sharing:)
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Pat
You have the most adorable way of story telling. Honest you do. I can hardly believe you made it to the shower & 10 minutes early! You weren't clear though if you shaved your legs or not though? Did you have time? lol I love having you back to blogging, back to writing great re-readable stories that make us gasp and laugh, and back to being a hopefully happier you. <3 love you girlfriend
Gina Daily
Ha, I have to agree with Pat ^^ up there. You really have a knack for telling stories in such a fun, engaging way! Hopefully sooner rather than later you and your friend will be able to laugh about the whole thing. And BTW, this red is your color!
Gina || On the Daily Express
LyddieGal
Oh no, that is so terrible! But really, you didn't miss her shower – you were there with a card and hairless legs, so are you a bad friend or actually a really amazing one?
Also these photos are making me jealous and wishing for summer.
Chic on the Cheap
Khush Interis
Thanks to the staff at this place for making our event so enjoyable and if I ever get married. I know where to go! Great job all of you. Price was not too bad, considering the quality of food and beverages. Everything at venues in NYC was excellent.