I had the best lunch of my life the other day. Not only was the food incredibly decadent, but I had one of the most encouraging and motivating conversations I have ever had. Like I’ve said before, I don’t know how I got so lucky to have so many wonderful people who support me but I am grateful for that. This specific person used to be a coworker and took on the life coach role after I left the office. She is inspiring in and of herself, she is in her 60’s and decided to go back to school to finish her degree.
Anyway, on to the lunch. It was incredible. I wish that every self-doubting, insecure, 20-something could have had that lunch. I walked out of there realizing that I CAN go after what I want. I have the power to make or break myself. I am the only who is putting limitations on what I can do. I told her about some of the crazy dreams I had and when I thought I could achieve them. She challenged me to dream even bigger and crazier. She challenged me to imagine where I want to be when I’m 30. And then dream even bigger. I can’t get into specifics because well, those are my dreams and I want to let them continue to fester inside of me until it’s time to reveal them. Not only was the food beyond what I imagined but the encouragement, coupled with your comments a few weeks ago, has been my fuel to getting through these past few weeks. She told me to go out there and be a hustler. And that is exactly what I needed.
P.S. (If you are wondering why I said hustler, listen to this Beyonce song)
Justyce
I loooooooooooooove you hair. It is so similar to mine. Have you just got it in a pony here or have you pinned it? Just gorgeous 🙂
Melissa
You look so wonderful in that outfit! I love your lovely smile 🙂 I think it's a great thing that you're learning so many new things, I think you're going to make it for sure! 🙂
xxx
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Rachelle (http://pinksole.com/)
You look so fierce in this sharp white jacket, and yes you can accomplish whatever you want just set your goals and don't give up. In this life you have to be a hustler.
Jessica @ Here&Now
B&W is always a classic, and you were it gorgeously!
xx
Here&Now
Nina Piccini
Looking HOT girl!!! It sounds so silly to say "reach for the moon and you'll land among the stars" but that's exactly how you should live your life!!
xo, Nina
afterthe40barfinish
Jessica
Ah, those convos are the best types to have! It's so important to surround yourself with people who are going to challenge and motivate you. I'm excited to see where this goes!
26 and Not Counting
Because Shanna Said So
Yay!! I am so happy that you got to sit down with her. She is so right….we are the ones that can make or break ourselves!! Keep on dreaming, sister!! You have such a bright future ahead of you! I can feel it!!
Rebecca
Nothing beats a B&W ensemble esp. when it is this adorable! It's always great to be around inspiring people!!
Rebecca
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Merritt
love this classic black & white look! Gorgeous!
The Style Scribe
Kristina
Great look, I love your blazer!
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TheTinyHeart
Sounds like she's a wonderful person to have in your life! I know you'll accomplish everything you set your mind to! And you look fabulous in black & white. 🙂
-Sharon
The Tiny Heart
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Ali Hval
(starts whistling tune to The Hustle by Van McCoy)
do-do-do-do—ohshootsorry. Okay, that is really great that you had this talk. It makes ME want to have this talk. But I'm so glad that you walked away from it feeling better, faster, stronger (sorry for all these song references daMN what is wrong with me?) because you totally deserve to feel that way. I'm cheering you along, you snazzy lady!
also, you always smile so much in your posts and it's making me want to try to smile more-rer and better-errer I JUST WANNA BE LIKE YOU <3
HAVE A GREAT WEEEEK
Alyssa
You look so gorgeous in black and white, lady! I love that top!
Stylin' In St. Louis
Love this black and white look on you! Gorgeous lady!
xo,
Jacqueline
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LyddieGal
You definitely look ready to take things on – how amazing and fortunate that you've got so many wonderful, inspiring people in your corner. Fabulous look as always, you've got me craving a white tuxedo blazer!
Chic on the Cheap
Annie
That sounds like quite the lunch! You look so sophisticated in all black & white 🙂
Annie
The Other Side of Gray
Who is that Girl Mo?
Life is definitely too short. Go out there and get em! 🙂 Loving the blazer.
Mo
Sonya Mann
I'm gonna cry because perfect black-and-white outfit and BEYONCE and encouragement <33333
Sara Strauss {Sincerely, Sara}
This outfit is so chic and professional!! I'm glad you have someone in your life that encourages you and makes you feel great about the future! I wish everyone had someone in their life like that!
~Sara
Sincerely, Sara
& Pretty Things
loving this classic black + white outfit 🙂 and that top is gorgeous! x
daisy
& Pretty Things
Elena
Glad you had such an inspiring lunch! I am working on taking a similar stance towards my career/life but it is definitely difficult at times!!
xoxo, Elena
the20-somethingproject.blogspot.com
Sampada
That sounds like a great experience! I wish you all the best in your journey 🙂 I often get sidetracked but a reminder like that is really refreshing.
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Tiffany Ima
This top is soooo pretty!
Tiffany Ima
Style Honestly
Jennifer Romero
You look beyond beautiful! So glad you had such a fabulous lunch!!
oXo
Jenn
Rachel
What a fancy blazer- I love it!
Ana Parfenova
Hi Alissa! I love your blazer and the fancy black details, everything about it is so perfect. It stands out in a great way. I just stumbled upon your blog and I am so glad I did. I subscribed and can't wait for future posts!
xo Ana
The Broken Stiletto
Darcy
Glad you had such a good lunch!! Sounds like an amazing woman. Good luck on all your life dreams! Go get it, girl!
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Jeans and a Teacup
Love the black and white look! The top and blazer look amazing and you look like you can take on the world! Glad you had an encouraging lunch!
~Jessica
Jeans and a Teacup
Em
What a great inspiration! There's nothing better than to have someone in your life that really inspires and motivates you to kick some major butt at everything you do! LOVE your outfit by the way! 🙂
Krysten Gautreaux
That sounds AMAZING. I wish I had had that talk with someone when I was younger. It took me a lot longer to figure out my own dreams and want to go for them.
In the Blue
Hi! I stumbled upon your blog, and I love your blog's title! Your outfit is so chic, simple and clean…you are seriously beaming with joy! It's a huge blessing to have people in our life that really empower and encourage us to think different. Its easy to be ordinary, but being extraordinary is where life really becomes a huge beautiful experience of which we are the key player. I make videos on YouTube about personal growth, self empowerment and living a conscious/aware life, check it out if you have the time at http://www.youtube.com/dearkajal. Lots of love xx
Anngelik Martinez
I love it when others support your work and encourage you with motivational conversations. I am also very grateful for my friends and family who support my work everyday, they mean the world to me. You look stunning with this beautiful beaded top, the detailing is astonishing.
-Vogue&Heels
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Charnele Michel
You go girl! I know exactly how it feels to have so many dreams but be afraid that you wont accomplish them. Keep hustling! Love that blazer. This is a powerful look!
xo,
Cha Cha
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TaraMixandMatch
You look absolutley stunning! So awesome that you have someone to inspire you like that 🙂
tastefulstyle
Love this look! That blazer is so crisp and polished. I'm glad to hear you had such a fantastically inspiring lunch date. Go forth and conquer, lady!
Nikki
So, is your mentor available for skyping? I am 27 and I still don't know what I am doing. I am just fumbling along and trying to figure it out as I go. Maybe you could tell me what it is I should do… Anyway, you look fabulous in these pictures. Love the hair, love the jacket. Amazing as always!
Nikki
thefashionablewife.com
shopandtwirl.com
Get it girl! LOVE that blazer!
Lisa Morice
Like you, my life is nuts at the moment. I'm so far behind in my blog reading! Anyhoo, just wanted to stop here a moment and say what a gorgeous, classy outfit you have on here is. And I totally agree with your comments, life is way too short to waste a moment. Go get 'em Alissa xx
Delilah Laney
love your blazer! it,s Cool. Life Coach